Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband, I aspire to be better each day until I become worthy of you. While I am working on myself, I hope not to get lost in my imperfection that I begin to take you for granted. Like other girls, I have made so many peculiar messes in my wake. I have had and still have guilty pleasures.…

A Remorseful Love Note

Baby Girl, This letter isn't an attempt to sway you back into my company. It is simply the only way I can express myself and hope you understand. I spent the whole of a quiet night thinking about us and figured I was slowly letting you out of my grasp. Perhaps, if I had thought more about us, we wouldn't…

Love me or set me free

We've been at this for some time, Holding on to the bond that binds us, as a newborn depends on his mother's breast to survive, Like twin sharing an umbilical cord in all accord. We've roared at each other like a thunder storming through the earth, And parted ways with anger, like lightning running through the sky, temporarily. You and…

Ewatomi: Echoes of Unrequited Love

Ewatomi, I bet you will never truly know how strange it feels to seek mere friendship in someone in whom you daily desire to date, in the hope of matrimony. Do you know how sour it is to wither a seed you planted, watered and nurtured with your own hands? Can you imagine how difficult it is to be evicted…

Sex is sacred

I have had sex before, I am not a virgin (LMAO). I am very familiar with the warmth that meets a man's penis when it plunges into the slippery sea to which only a man can feel but never know its end. I have experienced the momentarily stupefy that hits the spine, that of pleasure, when it's time for ejaculation.…

Sex: A Tool or Gift?

I'd have sworn that it was all love if it hadn't ruined us. It was how we found ourselves, yet how we lost each other. It was the word we never said and the one we always expressed. It was how we reconnected after thundering at each other, there was no greater apology. It was what we always did and…

To the girl that slid into my DM

Sweet girl, I am sorry for giving you the impression that I desired you as much as you needed me. In a world where men make technical but intentional slide into DMs, having you slide into mine swept me off my feet. You ignited the next few days with so much love, energy and attention; it was difficult to stand…

Tyler Perry’s ‘Acrimony’ Review (2018): A Love-inspired Crime.

Acrimony is an intentional reminder of how swift love can become a crime. It lays heavy emphasis on how everyone is a user, and why most times the choice of whom we choose to be with or roll with is influenced by what we tend to gain from them.  As a relationship consultant, I have been exposed to relative scenarios,…

How to differentiate a love from a liar

Remember my piece on knowing who wants you? Yes! It wasn’t written because I had figured out how to spot someone who wants you in their lives. It was inspired by the slimy behaviour of spouses in a relationship: people who aren’t ready for a relationship but would rather disguise to be, with an unconscious purpose of passing time. There…

What love did to us

See what love did to us. We embraced the word but not its meaning and let it take charge of our emotions and humanity. We sought to maintain the status quo against all odds, and we got blinded to the hurt we were sowing. Love, it became an answer to all the questions I asked you. Love, it became an…

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