Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband, I aspire to be better each day until I become worthy of you. While I am working on myself, I hope not to get lost in my imperfection that I begin to take you for granted. Like other girls, I have made so many peculiar messes in my wake. I have had and still have guilty pleasures.…

Sorry, not sorry.

Issue your apologies to people who truly deserve it, would value it and not seek to exploit it by turning it into a blackmail tool. Twice or thrice over the month did I apologize to a few friends because I valued our friendship more than the conflict, even when I wasn’t necessarily wrong. Guess what? They all became malicious, defensive…

A Remorseful Love Note

Baby Girl, This letter isn't an attempt to sway you back into my company. It is simply the only way I can express myself and hope you understand. I spent the whole of a quiet night thinking about us and figured I was slowly letting you out of my grasp. Perhaps, if I had thought more about us, we wouldn't…

True Love through Lies

If you are reading this and have ever truly been in love you'd understand that being in love most times require making impossible sacrifices. Treading abominable paths, being at war with friends and family, but not holding on to regrets if it doesn't work. Growing up has launched my insight into a pond of such helplessly complicated situation. Personally, I…

Ewatomi: Echoes of Unrequited Love

Ewatomi, I bet you will never truly know how strange it feels to seek mere friendship in someone in whom you daily desire to date, in the hope of matrimony. Do you know how sour it is to wither a seed you planted, watered and nurtured with your own hands? Can you imagine how difficult it is to be evicted…

Tales of My Misguided Emotion

Got something to share, the thought of it is already forming a cloud of emotions.  I remember this time last year. I was the happiest girl alive! I had everything I wanted, almost or so I thought. I had never been so happy, so much it made me delirious, so much I felt guilty for my state of utter bliss.…

Sex: A Tool or Gift?

I'd have sworn that it was all love if it hadn't ruined us. It was how we found ourselves, yet how we lost each other. It was the word we never said and the one we always expressed. It was how we reconnected after thundering at each other, there was no greater apology. It was what we always did and…

To the girl that slid into my DM

Sweet girl, I am sorry for giving you the impression that I desired you as much as you needed me. In a world where men make technical but intentional slide into DMs, having you slide into mine swept me off my feet. You ignited the next few days with so much love, energy and attention; it was difficult to stand…

Tyler Perry’s ‘Acrimony’ Review (2018): A Love-inspired Crime.

Acrimony is an intentional reminder of how swift love can become a crime. It lays heavy emphasis on how everyone is a user, and why most times the choice of whom we choose to be with or roll with is influenced by what we tend to gain from them.  As a relationship consultant, I have been exposed to relative scenarios,…

Maybe men are scum

Honestly, I am pissed this morning. This has been happening for a very long time now and though I couldn’t fathom it, I thought it was a matter of choice. I was having a conversation with my friend last night on our way home from his office. It was all fun until he heaved a heavy breath, shook his head,…

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