One Room

See, the memories from my childhood helped me become the man I am today. The life we lead was adequate motivation for me. My mother doubled as our father too. I have my own family now and I give them my best, but I don't go about judging others who can't. I have experienced the blurred side of life, so…

Sorry, not sorry.

Issue your apologies to people who truly deserve it, would value it and not seek to exploit it by turning it into a blackmail tool. Twice or thrice over the month did I apologize to a few friends because I valued our friendship more than the conflict, even when I wasn’t necessarily wrong. Guess what? They all became malicious, defensive…

Not a Suicide Note

Hey friend, Please don't do it! Don't go to that bridge. Don't knot that rope. Throw away that poison. Don't kill yourself because it isn't working. Please do not embrace death as an escape route from the thunder roaring fear into you in these dark times. I know death may feel like a greater option because nothing seems to be…

Alternate Path

Our plans will not always work out, so we must be willing to turn every hitch into an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't necessarily require you to have a plan B, but it definitely demands you to stop obsessing over plan A because you consider it as the best course of action. Be intentional yet spontaneous about progressing.…

Final Note 2018: You are not a Wasteland

Staying healthy and happy isn’t luxury, it is a necessity. Get them by every worthy means but be sure you’ll never have them if you always put others first. Stop being the convenience room everyone comes to ease themselves. You’re not a wasteland for the burden and messes of others, you’re special.

Tales of My Misguided Emotion

Got something to share, the thought of it is already forming a cloud of emotions.  I remember this time last year. I was the happiest girl alive! I had everything I wanted, almost or so I thought. I had never been so happy, so much it made me delirious, so much I felt guilty for my state of utter bliss.…

Sex: A Tool or Gift?

I'd have sworn that it was all love if it hadn't ruined us. It was how we found ourselves, yet how we lost each other. It was the word we never said and the one we always expressed. It was how we reconnected after thundering at each other, there was no greater apology. It was what we always did and…

You are light

Imagine standing in front of a mirror, in the dark. You are aware that the mirror is there but you're lost to the reflection of you it produces, because to see yourself in the true state of being requires a bit of light. To shine out demands mental liberation and mind illumination. No matter how beautiful you know you are,…

There will be no helper without the helped

When your dream eventually comes through, I want you to remember that you owe yourself the best life. Every other person comes after. Why? One of the cankerworm that feeds on success is the pressure that comes with wanting to attribute it to everyone you came across on that journey. Hence trying to conform to a lifestyle that pleases people…

Friendship: Standards and Sacrifices

Last night my brother told me, Constant communication will strengthen a relationship (friendship) but worthy sacrifices will take it farther. The first thought that popped into my mind was, it doesn’t matter how strong a bond appears, if it doesn't last then it is merely a facade of loyalty built on deceit. Yesterday I shared a question with my Whatsapp…

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