Face your fears, aggresively

I used to think that the greatest enemy anyone can have is self. Recent insights, however, has revealed that a man’s biggest enemy is fear; mental limitation. When people ask me what my greatest fear is, I am swift to say: failure or ill health. It now very glaring that living a life of phobia is a dangerous way to…

With freedom comes creativity

Yesterday's sermon had my pastor preach about freedom in a way I had never imagined. I have always known that freedom gives one the room to be independent but I had never really pondered on how much creativity is embedded in freedom. Such simplicity; to understand that people in captives are mentally and physically limited. To see that even the…

Journey to Fhe Future: My Chapters (1)

It’s the first day of April, the countdown to my birthday in 8 days and I have been reminiscing on my journey to the future; the book and my life. Therefore, if you are reading this, I hope this read enlightens your mind to rest while disturbing you to anticipate the book. Life is a journey; you and I are…

Go hard or go home?

Go hard or go home? Life works for different people in diverse ways. It's often been argued that hard work beats talent, maybe that's true or not. One thing we should never forget is that pushing ourselves beyond limits without taking a break can bring about a negative result. There is a Yoruba adage that translates, the home is the…

Selfless comes after self

There’s a Yoruba adage that translates, “the world will make a mockery of whom they carved you into today, tomorrow.” It is a solemn reminder that no matter how much love you have for people, self-love comes first. It is good to be selfless but it is wrong not to consider yourself adequately. The negative effect of doing otherwise is…

Beauty from pain

Now is not the time to give up. I know life can be hard, I understand how it feels to keep trying without the slightest result to show for it. If you don’t feel the losses; if they don’t hurt or humble you, that’s when you know you’re not cut out for the life you deserve. Embrace your pains and…

SOAR WITH OTHERS

I was having an assessment of my life so far over the weekend. How far have I come? How did I get here? And most especially, why am I still standing? I've had help, thank God. After several hours of pondering about it, I came to the conclusion that I am unique. I am because despite what life has thrown…

Man, Know Thyself

Dearie, your relationship with life and your immediate environment will be dormant if you don't understand yourself. How can you truly understand your purpose if you don't know who you are; your strength and weaknesses? You need to know what brings out the best in you and what makes your efforts vain. Else, you'll keep working hard, so hard against…

A man is not your God

When was the last time you genuinely asked God for guidance? I don’t mean the type of guidance where you are trying to impose your will on Him. I am referring to that humble state of mind where you give up your will, come to terms with the fact that you can’t walk a strange path alone, and request Him…

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a…

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