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Selfless comes after self

There’s a Yoruba adage that translates, “the world will make a mockery of whom they carved you into today, tomorrow.” It is a solemn reminder that no matter how much love you have for people, self-love comes first. It is good to be selfless but it is wrong not to consider yourself adequately. The negative effect of doing otherwise is ... Read More »

What love did to us

See what love did to us. We embraced the word but not its meaning and let it take charge of our emotions and humanity. We sought to maintain the status quo against all odds, and we got blinded to the hurt we were sowing. Love, it became an answer to all the questions I asked you. Love, it became an ... Read More »


I was having an assessment of my life so far over the weekend. How far have I come? How did I get here? And most especially, why am I still standing? I’ve had help, thank God. After several hours of pondering about it, I came to the conclusion that I am unique. I am because despite what life has thrown ... Read More »


I am not perfect and that humanely disqualifies me from judging others. Nonetheless, I am an emotional being and that means sometimes I feel a little too much, hence the essence of today’s post. To share a story of how people you prioritize don’t show the same commitment and how much it hurts, but to also liberate our minds of ... Read More »

Green Hostel 2 – 2

“Baba God? Kill your babe?” Prof muttered distortedly as he walked away, stopped abruptly then approached me again. This time making a mockery of the misunderstanding he created with his damning choice of words and infuriating me to the point of uncontrollable anger. “It is sad to see you express so much unbelievable naivety at such simple expression of grammar. ... Read More »

How do you know who wants you?

Let’s discuss getting the man or woman you desire to date you. It’s rare to find a relationship where partners just became an item without either of them making a move on the other. The in thing is embracing courage and asking each other out, doesn’t matter who does it, though that is a responsibility that has been willed to ... Read More »

Green hostel 2 -1

SADIST: Life was no longer the same in Green Hostel after Kunle’s demise. Okoro beat himself up about it for weeks. On certain days, he’d sit alone at night and drown his soul in cheap whiskey. He said and did little, and the only constant factor about him remained his expression of words in Pidgin English. On other days, he ... Read More »

Relationship and standards: knowing your place.

Let’s talk about relationship and standards. Realistically the chances of having someone stick with you despite the fact that you aren’t in their league keeps growing slimmer everyday. If you are a hot prospect for the future and you find a woman patient enough to stick with you in your growing process, then you are lucky. It’s rare for you ... Read More »

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a ... Read More »

Love, Choice and Consequences

I had plans of blogging about an entirely different topic but that can wait for later, this can’t. It is burning my soul. Before I proceed I’d like to be clear on something, “if you want to love or be loved, don’t play hide and seek or procrastinate, love and allow yourself to be loved.” I am not commanding, I ... Read More »