There will be no helper without the helped

When your dream eventually comes through, I want you to remember that you owe yourself the best life. Every other person comes after. Why? One of the cankerworm that feeds on success is the pressure that comes with wanting to attribute it to everyone you came across on that journey. Hence trying to conform to a lifestyle that pleases people…

Face your fears, aggresively

I used to think that the greatest enemy anyone can have is self. Recent insights, however, has revealed that a man’s biggest enemy is fear; mental limitation. When people ask me what my greatest fear is, I am swift to say: failure or ill health. It now very glaring that living a life of phobia is a dangerous way to…

With freedom comes creativity

Yesterday's sermon had my pastor preach about freedom in a way I had never imagined. I have always known that freedom gives one the room to be independent but I had never really pondered on how much creativity is embedded in freedom. Such simplicity; to understand that people in captives are mentally and physically limited. To see that even the…

Journey to the future: My Chapters (6)

A lost soul who doesn’t want to be found cannot be saved. Unfortunately, that’s what some of us are, lost souls that embrace condemnation and forbid hope. We lust after being saved but pursue darkness at all cost because we think the idea of light isn’t meant for us. This right here is why people get suicidal; they are aware…

Journey to the future: My Chapters (3)

Patience tells you that when you fall isn’t time to stop, keep going. It reminds you of the end result, inspires you to improve your means, and fixes your gaze on the final destination. Patience is strategic; don’t consider it as a routine built for an inferiority complex. Happy birthday in advance to my handsome self, my basic means of…

Go hard or go home?

Go hard or go home? Life works for different people in diverse ways. It's often been argued that hard work beats talent, maybe that's true or not. One thing we should never forget is that pushing ourselves beyond limits without taking a break can bring about a negative result. There is a Yoruba adage that translates, the home is the…

Selfless comes after self

There’s a Yoruba adage that translates, “the world will make a mockery of whom they carved you into today, tomorrow.” It is a solemn reminder that no matter how much love you have for people, self-love comes first. It is good to be selfless but it is wrong not to consider yourself adequately. The negative effect of doing otherwise is…

Beauty from pain

Now is not the time to give up. I know life can be hard, I understand how it feels to keep trying without the slightest result to show for it. If you don’t feel the losses; if they don’t hurt or humble you, that’s when you know you’re not cut out for the life you deserve. Embrace your pains and…

SOAR WITH OTHERS

I was having an assessment of my life so far over the weekend. How far have I come? How did I get here? And most especially, why am I still standing? I've had help, thank God. After several hours of pondering about it, I came to the conclusion that I am unique. I am because despite what life has thrown…

Man, Know Thyself

Dearie, your relationship with life and your immediate environment will be dormant if you don't understand yourself. How can you truly understand your purpose if you don't know who you are; your strength and weaknesses? You need to know what brings out the best in you and what makes your efforts vain. Else, you'll keep working hard, so hard against…

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