Painful love

Be warned, this is an intriguing love story with a happy ending but beneath it are pain and hurt. This is a tale of how I found love in the woman I got married to. Yes, I said found love because she wasn't the one I fell in love with. In fact, I was madly in love with her best…

Sweet like Vinegar

The semester had just begun and Jane like other students was in their most happy moments. Friends who had missed each other bonded, course mates who left each other for the long vacation were chatting happily, all over Lecture Room 9 were sounds of joy. It was the most stressless time in the semester. The lectures were not fully into the…

Sex: A Tool or Gift?

I'd have sworn that it was all love if it hadn't ruined us. It was how we found ourselves, yet how we lost each other. It was the word we never said and the one we always expressed. It was how we reconnected after thundering at each other, there was no greater apology. It was what we always did and…

To the girl that slid into my DM

Sweet girl, I am sorry for giving you the impression that I desired you as much as you needed me. In a world where men make technical but intentional slide into DMs, having you slide into mine swept me off my feet. You ignited the next few days with so much love, energy and attention; it was difficult to stand…

The Dark Gathering

I walked into the sitting room and stumbled on several swollen faces who suddenly had their gaze on me. Transfixed, I couldn't fathom the reason for the despair, anger and sorrow they expressed. Was it me? I couldn't help but wonder if I'd done something wrong. I sought out familiar faces, but even theirs were expressionless. Fear gripped my heart,…

There will be no helper without the helped

When your dream eventually comes through, I want you to remember that you owe yourself the best life. Every other person comes after. Why? One of the cankerworm that feeds on success is the pressure that comes with wanting to attribute it to everyone you came across on that journey. Hence trying to conform to a lifestyle that pleases people…

Tyler Perry’s ‘Acrimony’ Review (2018): A Love-inspired Crime.

Acrimony is an intentional reminder of how swift love can become a crime. It lays heavy emphasis on how everyone is a user, and why most times the choice of whom we choose to be with or roll with is influenced by what we tend to gain from them.  As a relationship consultant, I have been exposed to relative scenarios,…

Maybe men are scum

Honestly, I am pissed this morning. This has been happening for a very long time now and though I couldn’t fathom it, I thought it was a matter of choice. I was having a conversation with my friend last night on our way home from his office. It was all fun until he heaved a heavy breath, shook his head,…

Face your fears, aggresively

I used to think that the greatest enemy anyone can have is self. Recent insights, however, has revealed that a man’s biggest enemy is fear; mental limitation. When people ask me what my greatest fear is, I am swift to say: failure or ill health. It now very glaring that living a life of phobia is a dangerous way to…

Friendship: Standards and Sacrifices

Last night my brother told me, Constant communication will strengthen a relationship (friendship) but worthy sacrifices will take it farther. The first thought that popped into my mind was, it doesn’t matter how strong a bond appears, if it doesn't last then it is merely a facade of loyalty built on deceit. Yesterday I shared a question with my Whatsapp…

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