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I’ve lost contact with that world With it’s abnormal dimensions and Geometrical architecture that speaks The truth of an only. I now sing Shirk and think it wise when I dance to the “strangers” music and mingle Among the “commoners” wishes.   I pray to no direction and Act out no ablution. Woe be the compass and be burnt every ... Read More »

Selfless comes after self

There’s a Yoruba adage that translates, “the world will make a mockery of whom they carved you into today, tomorrow.” It is a solemn reminder that no matter how much love you have for people, self-love comes first. It is good to be selfless but it is wrong not to consider yourself adequately. The negative effect of doing otherwise is ... Read More »

What love did to us

See what love did to us. We embraced the word but not its meaning and let it take charge of our emotions and humanity. We sought to maintain the status quo against all odds, and we got blinded to the hurt we were sowing. Love, it became an answer to all the questions I asked you. Love, it became an ... Read More »

Green Hostel 2 – 3

Last week on Green Hostel Tola’s departure was what she called it. Leaving the shores of the country and never looking back except chance allows it. The type of chance that boils down to the next set of choices I make. The choice to nurture my good heart and grow into a better man or just live it all up; ... Read More »


I am not perfect and that humanely disqualifies me from judging others. Nonetheless, I am an emotional being and that means sometimes I feel a little too much, hence the essence of today’s post. To share a story of how people you prioritize don’t show the same commitment and how much it hurts, but to also liberate our minds of ... Read More »

How do you know who wants you?

Let’s discuss getting the man or woman you desire to date you. It’s rare to find a relationship where partners just became an item without either of them making a move on the other. The in thing is embracing courage and asking each other out, doesn’t matter who does it, though that is a responsibility that has been willed to ... Read More »

Relationship and standards: knowing your place.

Let’s talk about relationship and standards. Realistically the chances of having someone stick with you despite the fact that you aren’t in their league keeps growing slimmer everyday. If you are a hot prospect for the future and you find a woman patient enough to stick with you in your growing process, then you are lucky. It’s rare for you ... Read More »

The vow, too

I have never been surer of anything in my life like the words I am about to express you in this moment. More than that, in a world where love fails and marriages, crumble on uncertainties, I keep unwavering faith in what we share. That I take you as my wife in this day, not as for better for us ... Read More »

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a ... Read More »

Love and Standards

The greatest attack on love is when it is expressed or reciprocated based on another person’s standard. The joy that it’s supposed to bring our way diminishes and in turn we begin to embrace hate. Yes, I said hate. What happens when you decide to starve someone because he or she didn’t feed you while you were hungry? If you ... Read More »