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How do you know who wants you?

Let’s discuss getting the man or woman you desire to date you. It’s rare to find a relationship where partners just became an item without either of them making a move on the other. The in thing is embracing courage and asking each other out, doesn’t matter who does it, though that is a responsibility that has been willed to ... Read More »

Green hostel 2 -1

SADIST: Life was no longer the same in Green Hostel after Kunle’s demise. Okoro beat himself up about it for weeks. On certain days, he’d sit alone at night and drown his soul in cheap whiskey. He said and did little, and the only constant factor about him remained his expression of words in Pidgin English. On other days, he ... Read More »

A man is not your God

When was the last time you genuinely asked God for guidance? I don’t mean the type of guidance where you are trying to impose your will on Him. I am referring to that humble state of mind where you give up your will, come to terms with the fact that you can’t walk a strange path alone, and request Him ... Read More »

Relationship and standards: knowing your place.

Let’s talk about relationship and standards. Realistically the chances of having someone stick with you despite the fact that you aren’t in their league keeps growing slimmer everyday. If you are a hot prospect for the future and you find a woman patient enough to stick with you in your growing process, then you are lucky. It’s rare for you ... Read More »

The vow, too

I have never been surer of anything in my life like the words I am about to express you in this moment. More than that, in a world where love fails and marriages, crumble on uncertainties, I keep unwavering faith in what we share. That I take you as my wife in this day, not as for better for us ... Read More »

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a ... Read More »

You only owe what you borrowed

The biggest mistake anyone can make is to be sentimentally stuck in a cycle because you don’t want to appear bad as it may seem. That is, when someone does something for you and because of that you automatically think you owe them your life. That way you become scared, so afraid to move on because you can’t imagine what ... Read More »

Love and Standards

The greatest attack on love is when it is expressed or reciprocated based on another person’s standard. The joy that it’s supposed to bring our way diminishes and in turn we begin to embrace hate. Yes, I said hate. What happens when you decide to starve someone because he or she didn’t feed you while you were hungry? If you ... Read More »

Love, Choice and Consequences

I had plans of blogging about an entirely different topic but that can wait for later, this can’t. It is burning my soul. Before I proceed I’d like to be clear on something, “if you want to love or be loved, don’t play hide and seek or procrastinate, love and allow yourself to be loved.” I am not commanding, I ... Read More »