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The vow, too

I have never been surer of anything in my life like the words I am about to express you in this moment. More than that, in a world where love fails and marriages, crumble on uncertainties, I keep unwavering faith in what we share. That I take you as my wife in this day, not as for better for us ... Read More »

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a ... Read More »

You only owe what you borrowed

The biggest mistake anyone can make is to be sentimentally stuck in a cycle because you don’t want to appear bad as it may seem. That is, when someone does something for you and because of that you automatically think you owe them your life. That way you become scared, so afraid to move on because you can’t imagine what ... Read More »

Love and Standards

The greatest attack on love is when it is expressed or reciprocated based on another person’s standard. The joy that it’s supposed to bring our way diminishes and in turn we begin to embrace hate. Yes, I said hate. What happens when you decide to starve someone because he or she didn’t feed you while you were hungry? If you ... Read More »

Love, Choice and Consequences

I had plans of blogging about an entirely different topic but that can wait for later, this can’t. It is burning my soul. Before I proceed I’d like to be clear on something, “if you want to love or be loved, don’t play hide and seek or procrastinate, love and allow yourself to be loved.” I am not commanding, I ... Read More »

Parent-Child Preference and Comparison

You must have heard of parents who swap their children’s birthright for different reasons. That’s what this post is about. Should parents have favourites among their kids? I think such preferential treatment can bring about enmity within siblings. Do you agree? It’s obvious that all fingers aren’t equal but do we need to intimidate the shortest? Isn’t it beautiful to ... Read More »

Break the Silence

I woke up to a very motivating message from a friend and it inspired this post. She talked about ‘breaking the silence’ and related it to quite a number of phases in life. While I digested the message, it stuck on my conscience that I have been silent in some aspects of my life. Take for instance blogging, my last ... Read More »


“What’s the deadliest thing/situation you have survived?” She asked. “If you can survive that, then you can survive about anything. I mean you’re invincible, and you are strong enough to make it on your own.” Those where her words to me. I wondered how a thirteen year old could muster such strength with her tiny voice. I was later told ... Read More »

Dear Single (To Stupor) Self

Dear Single (To Stupor) Self, How long has it been since you have been alone on your journey? Hours, days, months or years? I sincerely hope you’re having fun, it must be the time of your life. I mean, nothing else defines having no one to walk with, talk to and lean on but being soley comfortable. Need I remind ... Read More »

The Crecer Dream

So many young people want to make it in life with a fulfillment of vast vision but only few of them understands what is required to achieve such laudable feat. This isn’t because they choose to be ignorant; it is because some of us are lagging behind in our lives’ purpose of helping the present generation realize that there isn’t ... Read More »