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Selfless comes after self

There’s a Yoruba adage that translates, “the world will make a mockery of whom they carved you into today, tomorrow.” It is a solemn reminder that no matter how much love you have for people, self-love comes first. It is good to be selfless but it is wrong not to consider yourself adequately. The negative effect of doing otherwise is ... Read More »

Beauty from pain

Now is not the time to give up. I know life can be hard, I understand how it feels to keep trying without the slightest result to show for it. If you don’t feel the losses; if they don’t hurt or humble you, that’s when you know you’re not cut out for the life you deserve. Embrace your pains and ... Read More »


I was having an assessment of my life so far over the weekend. How far have I come? How did I get here? And most especially, why am I still standing? I’ve had help, thank God. After several hours of pondering about it, I came to the conclusion that I am unique. I am because despite what life has thrown ... Read More »

Man, Know Thyself

Dearie, your relationship with life and your immediate environment will be dormant if you don’t understand yourself. How can you truly understand your purpose if you don’t know who you are; your strength and weaknesses? You need to know what brings out the best in you and what makes your efforts vain. Else, you’ll keep working hard, so hard against ... Read More »

A man is not your God

When was the last time you genuinely asked God for guidance? I don’t mean the type of guidance where you are trying to impose your will on Him. I am referring to that humble state of mind where you give up your will, come to terms with the fact that you can’t walk a strange path alone, and request Him ... Read More »

Step aside and hit the refresh button

Life comes will load of responsibilities but to handle them properly demands you to learn how to step aside sometimes, and realize that you can’t meet all needs, yours or others. My primary purpose for sticking to writing and relationship consultancy is because it affords me the ultimate privilege of helping others and curing emotional curiosities. It took me a ... Read More »

Love and Standards

The greatest attack on love is when it is expressed or reciprocated based on another person’s standard. The joy that it’s supposed to bring our way diminishes and in turn we begin to embrace hate. Yes, I said hate. What happens when you decide to starve someone because he or she didn’t feed you while you were hungry? If you ... Read More »

Break the Silence

I woke up to a very motivating message from a friend and it inspired this post. She talked about ‘breaking the silence’ and related it to quite a number of phases in life. While I digested the message, it stuck on my conscience that I have been silent in some aspects of my life. Take for instance blogging, my last ... Read More »

The Crecer Dream

So many young people want to make it in life with a fulfillment of vast vision but only few of them understands what is required to achieve such laudable feat. This isn’t because they choose to be ignorant; it is because some of us are lagging behind in our lives’ purpose of helping the present generation realize that there isn’t ... Read More »

Stop Struggling, Be Spontaneous

I write (or scribble as the case may be) every day but I don’t wake up every day feeling inspired to write. There are days when I wake up to stare at life without a clue of what message it has for me to share with you. On certain days this is because what I desire to share isn’t what ... Read More »